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Does sex really sell advertising?

     
Sex will always be a part of advertising because advertisers know that sex sells. It may not sell to everyone, but market researchers know that sexual content in advertising grabs attention. As long as they have your attention, they can market their product. Even if the product has nothing to do with sex.

Advertisers do not market products to offend moral conscious. They advertise to sell their product. But, even individuals who find themselves offended by sexually explicit advertising still talk about them, and marketing executives still believe the old axiom, “there is no such thing as bad advertising”. Even when an advertising campaign generates controversy, it is still considered effective.

Manufacturers hire advertising companies to market products to those individuals most likely to purchase them. And advertising executives conduct extensive market research to determine who fills the target demographic of the manufacturers products. Ad campaigns are then developed to reach the greatest number of potential customers within that demographic group.

In a perfect world, advertisers reach their target customers, those customers purchase the manufacturers products, the manufacturers profit from their relationship with the advertising agency. At that point, everybody is happy.

But what happens when such intangibles as advertising reach, competitive market share, and an ineffective ad campaign effects the manufacturer’s advertising investment? Then, advertisers broaden their demographic scope in hopes of reaching a greater population. In such situations, men may have to sit through ads for feminine products, or women may end up viewing scantily clad beauties bouncing on the beach. The target demographic is still being reached, but non-target consumers may become uncomfortable by the ads.

Selling sex to men vs. women

Most people understand that women in bikinis have nothing to do with selling beer. But advertisers target beer commercials to their core demographic, who just happen to be beer drinking males between the ages of 21 and 36 years old. That isn’t to say that women do not drink beer, but research indicates that while a woman may have a beer or two, young men drink considerably more, usually consuming four to six beers in a sitting.

Advertisers also know when to sell sex to both men and women. Condom ads were once found only in male oriented magazines. But with the heightened awareness in safe sex and the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases (STD’s), condom manufacturers now advertise their products to both sexes, targeting those demographics who research has found to be most sexually active. Consequently, condoms are now just as likely to be purchased by women as they are by men.

Selling sex to an older generation

Sexual performance and enhancement products are another example of how sex related content is now targeting an older generation. Such products are marketed towards “baby boomers” who may be beyond their sexual peak, but still enjoy the satisfaction of a healthy sexual relationship with their partners. Few men in the 21 to 36 demographic would admit to needing such products, but through the broad reach of advertising, they are aware of them. Such unfiltered advertising increases a manufacturers reach, but also guarantees future customers.
There will always be some who oppose sex in advertising. But, advertising is a numbers game. In other words, as long as the number of sales generated by ads with sexual content outnumber those individuals who find the ads offensive, advertisers will continue to use them. To them, the end justifies the means.

But advertisers have another weapon at their disposal. The First Amendment to the United States Constitution reads, “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.”

To advertisers, this means that they have every right to market a product in any manner they see fit, as long as it does not present a “clear and present danger” to the people of the United States. Church groups have complained, but they are also covered under the same amendment.

Advertisers will continue to use sex

The main objective of advertising is to sell products, and sex sells. As long as consumers respond to ads with sexual content, then advertisers will continue to produce such ads. There are fewer inhibitions about sex than there were 40 years ago, and much of the sexual content used in ads today would have been censored then.
There will also continue to be individuals who oppose sex in advertising. But, until advertisers find a way to market certain products by depicting images of nuns or the elderly enjoying them, sexual images will continue to bombard our senses.

Let’s just hope that beer companies don’t start showing scantily clad grandmothers bouncing on the beach. But, then again, that could very well sell a product to someone.

What makes a woman sexy?


As she entered the room, every eye turned in her direction, mine included. She was not the most beautiful woman present. There were others there who's faces could have graced the covers of Vogue or Elle. She was not the tallest, shortest, heaviest, or thinnest woman there. Others could place claims on those superlatives, too. Initially, it wasn't anything you could immediately put your finger on, but whatever it was, she just simply had it, and she carried it like few women ever could.


What makes a woman sexy is not always her most obvious characteristics. Sure, physical appearance has something to do with it. But it's much deeper than that. The sparkle in her eyes, the manner in which she carries herself, her smile, the way she dresses, the confident ease in how she walks, and the way she wears he hair will all demand some level of attention.

But how she interacts with others is also important. The self-assured demeanor that carries her effortlessly through each meaningless conversation, smiling, and never losing eye contact with whomever she's she's engaged. She doesn't gulp her drink, but rather sips, as if she savors the taste and appreciates it's delicacies. She gives space, but is never too far away. And she attracts attention, with having to demand it.

In conversation, she does not agree to everything uttered. She has her own mind, with views and positions on a wide range of topics. She isn't condescending when she is better versed on a topic, but she can also admit when she's wrong, and shows genuine interest when not totally comfortable with the subject matter. She is open to new knowledge, even if she'll never use it. She is comfortable with her femininity, but doesn't always have to defend feminism. To her, isn't so much a matter of male or female, but rather whats right or wrong. Without a doubt, she is her own person, but respects the potentially fragile ego of her male counterpart. She know how to balance being who she is, without taking away from the person that he aspires to be. She knows that women mature sooner that men, but doesn't have to rub it in his face.

A woman can be sexy wearing sweats or a gown, with hair pinned up or flowing freely down, while working a room or at ease in her home, chilling with the girls or out on her own. She's sexy while crunching for an upcoming test, while losing at b-ball but trying her best. She's sexy while shopping, she struts through the mall, but mostly she's sexy doing nothing at all.

Can't Get Enough Of "It"

It It It
I was hanging out with the guys a couple of weeks ago, and after a few hours of consuming beverages, it became obvious that I had spent the better part of the evening discussing “her”. What was even more noticeable was that in my last relationship, it wasn’t often that I spent much more than a courtesy mention of the woman who was once in my life. But now, with my mouth fully liberated from the effects of spirited beverages, I couldn’t keep my tongue from wagging or my thoughts to myself.

Eventually, one of the beer sages disclosed a profoundly philosophical revelation. He, in all of his fermented hops and barley wisdom, had determined that I had “it” bad. “It”, I thought… What the heck was “it”? “It” to me is something tangible. Something you can put your hands on. “It” is an object, a thing, or something so insignificant that you don’t even bother attaching a name to.

“It” made me think of something dirty, something I didn’t want to have, like a virus or something. “It” is a nameless something-or-other that no one really cares exists, except, of course, unless you had “it”, or for the “It” of some Stephen King suspense thriller.

Shocked by the insinuation that I had anything more that a good beer buzz, I adamantly denied that I had “it” at all, never the less, had “it” bad. But one by one, each of them recited something from my hops inspired praise of “her”. And they laughed, because I didn’t remember saying half of what they repeated. This, of course confirmed to them that I had “it”, and that I had “it” bad.

It wasn’t until later that evening, while at home lying in bed, that it hit me like a slap from a wet towel. I began to realize that, despite my initial reaction, “it” didn’t necessarily have to be a bad thing. I remembered that, after all, guys hit “it”, women want “it”, couples do “it”, and Michael Jackson beats “it”. I realized that at times, I do like to touch “it”, fondle “it”, caress “it”, and kiss “it”. And to be honest, right now I miss “it”.

Most importantly, I realized that “it” can be a feeling. “It” describes that accelerated heartbeat and belly flutters that come to life when she’s in my presence. “It” makes me smile when I hear her voice, pick fresh flowers, choose a wine, or take a shower. “It” is helping in the kitchen, holding her while in complete silence, or talking late into the night about nothing in particular. Yep, after thinking about “it”, I have to admit that I do have “it”, and I guess I do have “it” bad.





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Do Guys Say "I Love You" Just For Sex?

He's done everything right so far. He's taken you on memorable dates to your favorite restaurant, walks in the park, dancing, and even spent the morning watching the sunrise over the ocean. He calls in the middle of his busy day just to say hello, and to see how your day has been. He's sent flowers, for no particular reason except that he thought you'd appreciate them. You seem to enjoy the same music, movies, and he's even invited you over and prepared a special meal for you. What surprised you most was that he can really cook.
After two weeks of dating and some hot-n-heavy petting, you've finally heard words you've been hoping to hear, that he loves spending as much time as possible with you and that he love's the direction that the relationship is moving. You want to experience all of him, but up to this point, he's been the perfect gentleman. You're actually turned on by the fact that he hasn't pressed the issue of sex, but you're already fantasizing about how great it's going to be. At this point, you're ready to explode just thinking about it.

It's now been a month, and if he doesn't make his move soon, you're going to start pressing him. Then, out of the blue, he says "I think I'm falling in love with you." This hits you like a ton of bricks, and finally, before you can catch your breath, he's touching and kissing you just the way you like. He's slow and caring, not rushing, but rather attentive to every area of your body. You submit fully and completely, and in the height of your passion, the words slip from your mouth as if they had a mind of their own...I LOVE YOU! You don't even know where it came from.

The next few weeks are magical. You experience some of the best love making of your sexual existence, and he's encouraged you to try things that you've never even considered before. Then, as if someone 's turned off the faucet, his phone calls and visits become less frequent. You get the usual excuses; working late, out of town on business, watching the game with the guys, and he need to spend time with the kids.You're confused, but you believe everything he tells you, because you "need" to. You plan a night that you just know he'll enjoy, and when you ask what time he can make it to your place, he stuns you with "don't you think we're moving too fast?"

Through all of you devastation and frustration, you finally realize you've been played. Now, you need some answers...

-Why do guys go through the trouble seducing women, only to pull the same BS?
-Why do they even say the "L" word when all they want is sex?
-Why are men so callous about playing with a woman's emotions?


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As with any technology, there is always the possibility that it may venture into the wrong hands. Curiosity seekers have pulled up plans for nuclear weapons, adventurous teens have brought down banking systems, and terrorists and hate-mongers have used the medium both for recruitment and to broadcast their message of radical activism to the masses.

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The book, titled "What Happened: Inside the Bush White House and Washington's Culture of Deception", states that Bush turned away from a policy of candor and honesty when those qualities were most needed. McClellan also says that "the way Bush handled Iraq almost guaranteed that the use of force was the only feasible option".

March marked five years since the US invasion of Iraq. The Department of Defense confirms the deaths of 4083 American troops since the start of the war, and the numbers continue to climb. Bush is currently petitioning Congress for more money to fund the insurgency, and promises to veto a proposed bill to improve education benefits to returning veterans.

In the meantime, there have still been no signs of weapons of mass destruction, nor will the president commit to a timetable for the removal of US Troops. There is a misguided opinion that the Iraqi government will adopt policies favorable to the Bush White House, and while all of this political maneuvering is going on, both American soldiers and Iraqi civilians lose their lives daily.

My question is... To what end?
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With all of the news about married politicians getting caught up on the escort frenzy. This particular article caught my eyes. I guess I wonder what makes a manventure into such forbidden territory when he has so much at stake. I also wonder about what lures women into this industry. Is it strictly for the money, or is it the excitement of the unknown?
He's been a mainstay in the US political roadmap for years, and he's had his share of tragic life events, but he's still kicking. Is it finally time to come to terms with mortality?
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As she entered the room, every eye turned in her direction, mine included. She was not the most beautiful woman present. There were others there who's faces could have graced the covers of Vogue or Elle. She was not the tallest, shortest, heaviest, or thinnest woman there. Others could place claims on those superlatives, too. Initially, it wasn't anything you could immediately put your finger on, but whatever it was, she just simply had it, and she carried it like few women ever could. What makes a woman... Read entire article: click here

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Recent revelations about the extramarital indiscretions of New York Governor Elliot Spitzer have caused America to once again be swept into frenzied media debates about faithfulness and infidelity in marriages. 

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