Dating after a break-up

Experts would say that it's best to get back on a horse after being thrown off, to get back in the batter's box after striking out, and to never give up after the disappointment of failure. But a clich is of little use to a person on the rebound from a broken heart, and getting back in the saddle could be the last thing on their mind.

Taking the first step towards dating again after being dumped by a lover is like to starting to walk all over again after an accident. The first few steps are a little shaky, but it doesn't take long to get back into stride. The most difficult part of dating again is letting go of the past, and the important thing to remember is not to move too fast.

Letting Go of Ghosts

Past relationships can be haunting. They can often keep us from moving forward long after the relationship has ended, and cause us to see things in our new associations that aren't really there. Letting go of ghosts from relationships past is essential to opening doors to the possibilities of the future.

There is nothing wrong with being a little cautious, but it's an entirely different matter when we allow the fears of our past to hold us back from achieving emotional fulfillment. Letting go of ghosts is not always easy, but it is necessary in order to move into more fulfilling relationships.

Allow Time for Healing

A broken heart will mend at its' own pace, but it is possible to accelerate the process. Allowing time for healing prior to jumping back into the dating scene helps minimize future relationship issues. Rushing from one relationship to another is a recipe for disaster. A bruised heart is a lot like a strained muscle, it still functions, but it is most effective after going through the entire healing process.

Have a Little Faith


Dating after being dumped is an exercise in faith. We often invest so much of ourselves into our past relationships that we feel emotionally vulnerable when things don't work out. Too often, we carry that baggage into other potential relationships. We shouldn't fear every dog just because we've had a bad experience with one.

Stepping out in faith does not mean to leap blindly. There is nothing wrong with learning from past mistakes, as long as they don't keep us shackled to our fears. Faith becomes stronger by taking things a step at a time, and that includes letting go, healing our wounds, and moving forward.

Eventually, as we begin dating again, we engage our new relationships with an open heart, an open mind, and very open eyes.

The Great Male Survey: What Men Really Think

Think you know what's really going on with your guy? Recently, AskMen.com, the on-line men's lifestyle magazine, conducted a survey to determine what's on the mind of todays "modern man". The survey covered areas such as sexuality, power and money, dating, and lifestyle, and combined with Yahoo! Shine's Great Female Survey, generated more than 10 million answers.

Some interesting findings from the men's survey include; 94% of men believe that real men cry, 86% were not completely satisfied with their sex lives, 77% think that a girfriend should have "wife" potential, and 79% don't believe that salary is the best measure of Professional success.

Click on the link below to view the survey, and find out what men are really thinking.

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Do Guys Say "I Love You" Just For Sex?

He's done everything right so far. He's taken you on memorable dates to your favorite restaurant, walks in the park, dancing, and even spent the morning watching the sunrise over the ocean. He calls in the middle of his busy day just to say hello, and to see how your day has been. He's sent flowers, for no particular reason except that he thought you'd appreciate them. You seem to enjoy the same music, movies, and he's even invited you over and prepared a special meal for you. What surprised you most was that he can really cook.

After two weeks of dating and some hot-n-heavy petting, you've finally heard words you've been hoping to hear, that he loves spending as much time as possible with you and that he love's the direction that the relationship is moving. You want to experience all of him, but up to this point, he's been the perfect gentleman. You're actually turned on by the fact that he hasn't pressed the issue of sex, but you're already fantasizing about how great it's going to be. At this point, you're ready to explode just thinking about it.

It's now been a month, and if he doesn't make his move soon, you're going to start pressing him. Then, out of the blue, he says "I think I'm falling in love with you." This hits you like a ton of bricks, and finally, before you can catch your breath, he's touching and kissing you just the way you like. He's slow and caring, not rushing, but rather attentive to every area of your body. You submit fully and completely, and in the height of your passion, the words slip from your mouth as if they had a mind of their own...I LOVE YOU! You don't even know where it came from.

The next few weeks are magical. You experience some of the best love making of your sexual existence, and he's encouraged you to try things that you've never even considered before. Then, as if someone 's turned off the faucet, his phone calls and visits become less frequent. You get the usual excuses; working late, out of town on business, watching the game with the guys, and he need to spend time with the kids.You're confused, but you believe everything he tells you, because you "need" to. You plan a night that you just know he'll enjoy, and when you ask what time he can make it to your place, he stuns you with "don't you think we're moving too fast?"

Through all of you devastation and frustration, you finally realize you've been played. Now, you need some answers...

-Why do guys go through the trouble seducing women, only to pull the same BS?
-Why do they even say the "L" word when all they want is sex?
-Why are men so callous about playing with a woman's emotions?


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